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Skin to skin contact is one of the things that makes me really pumped up. Babies do better when they are skin to skin with their parent, birthing persons do better when they are skin to skin with baby. Yet, it’s still really common place to see parents and baby separated following birth! So, let’s talk about the wonders of skin to skin. The more birthing persons who ask for it, the more it becomes the norm.
These are impressive! Even more impressive, all of these are true in low birth weight, preterm infants [1]!
Unfortunately, this is another instance where birthing persons have to advocate for themselves. Make sure your care provider and your doula know that you want immediate skin to skin with your baby. There are very few instances where you and baby actually need to be separated right after birth. So, state clearly that you want your little one placed on your chest immediately (this goes for C-sections too!).
Ask if recommended procedures can be done skin to skin, chances are they can! APGAR assessments, heal pricks, vitamin K shots and eye ointment- all of these can be done skin to skin. Even a CPAP and suctioning can be done this way.
Ask your care provider to wait to weigh your baby. At least, wait until after the two of you have established breastfeeding. This gives you and baby a chance to bond and for your fierce maternal instinct to kick in.
Get your partner in on it. It’s important to maintain skin to skin contact for the first few days of life. This means that your support team will have to pick up a lot of work- meal prep, doing dishes, cleaning and entertaining any guests that might come around. Your birth partner can also be the skin in skin to skin care whenever you need a break.
Get good at baby wearing. Find a store near you that has trained staff who can help you find a carrier that works for you. Then wear your baby! Bonus points if you are naked under the carrier.
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[1] Bera, Alpanamayi et al. “Effect Of Kangaroo Mother Care On Vital Physiological Parameters Of The Low Birth Weight Newborn”. Indian Journal of Community Medicine 39.4 (2014): 245. Web.